Could You Be in a Polyamorous Relationship?


While many turn away from the notion of “sharing” their partner, others embrace love with open arms.

Polyamory has gotten a bad reputation– namely through popular television series that depict polyamorous couples as promiscuous, selfish sex addicts that are afraid of commitment. We’re here to break that stereotype.
The Claim

Here’s the question on everyone’s minds: is maintaining a polyamorous relationship possible? And we say yes.
The Difficulty

It starts with open communication. When you decide to pursue another partner, either casually or seriously, make a point to tell your primary partner (or partners). You would want them to do the same when they decide to see someone else. Remember that jealousy is a natural emotion. Your primary partner(s) may want to start a relationship with someone you’re seeing– and you may want to see someone your partner is seeing. Jealousy does crop up, but it’s normal.
Accepting Jealousy

Acknowledging jealousy as a human emotion makes open communication easier as well. Take the time. Making every involved partner happy will take a lot of time and commitment. Seriously, it’s a lot of work. Each person may want something different. In turn, juggling your time across several partners, some of which may be jealous of one another, can take lots of effort. Triads are just as much work as polyamorous couples that consist of 7 or 8 partners.
Stay Healthy

Most importantly, take the time to get tested; having multiple partners who also have partners can heighten your risk for contracting STIs. Ultimately, polyamory is possible– if you’re seriously willing to work toward it. It’s just like any monogamous relationship. It takes open communication, hard work, and commitment.

Girl Talk Time: What do you think? Does a polyamorous relationship seem possible in your life? Why or why not?


About Oghidi Paul

BLOGGER, GEEK , SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT My Name is Oghidi Paul, I’m a 20 something years old web designer from Nigeria, currently studying Computer Science at the University of Benin, Nigeria. As it’s been said, if you love things, Material or Immaterial, they always find a way to love you back. The way I’m passionate about my job, it comes to me naturally. If all you want is a creative website that is eye catching and SEO friendly, then that’s when I come in. My passion is all about creating real elegant looking websites, always keeping it clean and simple with that added functionality of user interaction you would like to see. My job is to build your website so that it is functional and user friendly, SEO friendly(Search Engine Optimization is no longer black hat tricks, but a standard part of any serious web marketing plan) and at the same time attractive. My aim is to bring your message and identity to your targeted audience in the most creative way. I’m available for freelance work. If you would like to get in touch with me, then be sure to connect with me via any of the following links: Phone: +2347062720709

Posted on September 16, 2013, in Uncategorised. Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

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